Maybe tomorrow you will wake to find that the rhythm of your life, your routine, has changed. Someone stepped out of it and left you lost and confused. It’s like everything you thought you knew was not true. It was not a reality, but the current perception of whoever was making you believe it was real. When this happens you realize what was important to you, who was and is important to you and who will always be there for you. You will be able to see what shoulders are near to cry on or what ears are ready to listen. You will figure out who truly cares about your well-being and is willing to keep you company even if it’s past midnight if you simply can’t sleep because of the sudden stress and suffering you find yourself caught in. Life is not fair, get this through your head. You will love and be unrequited, you will love and lose, and you will be the recipient of unrequited affection as well. You will get your heart broken, but you will also break hearts. Someday, you WILL have to choose between the one you love and the one who loves you. Choose wisely, because you might just end up alone. Remember to breathe, and of course I do not mean this literally because, who could forget? But take things easy, prioritize and think about yourself. Take a break when it it’s too much. Whatever is meant to be yours, will be yours eventually but don’t take things too lightly either. We won’t live forever, and we should remember to take advantage of every moment we can spend with those we care about. Like said in “Sweet November”: “If I’ve learned anything it’s that you should have the people who love you, around you as long as you possibly can.” Don’t try to control things that you simply can’t because you will only get frustrated and probably make it worse. Life is life, and fate does take care of many things. You just have to patient, calm, strong and be full of faith and love.

“Solo hay una manera de ser feliz y es dejando de preocuparse por todo aquello que esta fuera de nuestro control” -Epicteto